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The World Issue

Long reads on sex, culture and pleasure travel, by Ali Imperiale.

The Sexiest Thing I've Ever Seen Was in a Paris BasementI said this last year about the BDSM demonstration in Prague. I take it back. What I saw in a basement in the Latin Quarter of Paris on my first…Why Asking for Consent Can Kill the Mood in ParisI've been to Paris six times.Dirty Talk Across Cultures — French Canadian vs AngloThere is a moment that happens early in any relationship where you realize that the person you're sleeping with has a completely different vocabulary…Getting Naked with Strangers Is Actually Good For YouLet me set the scene.How Montreal Became Sin CityI live in Montreal. I love Montreal. And one of the things I love most about it is that it has never been particularly interested in pretending to be…I Went on a Sex Education Trip to AmsterdamI've been to Amsterdam before. Several times, actually — usually staying with friends who live outside the city, doing the classic tourist things,…I Went on a Sex Education Trip to PragueWhat comes to mind when you think of Prague?Inside Tenga — A Day at Japan's Most Innovative Sex Toy CompanyI was in Tokyo for a brief trip and I did what I always do in a new city: I started Googling sex culture.Inside the IndustrySex work in Thailand is probably one of the most talked about and most misunderstood industries in the world.Japan's Relationship With Sex Is Unlike Anything Else on EarthJapan is known for its cutting-edge technology, its extraordinary food, its anime, and its deep cultural modesty around anything to do with sex.Pleasure Travel — What It Is and Why More People Are Doing ItI recently went to my first play party in Mexico.Sex Across America — How Where You Live Shapes What You're Allowed to WantMost of my audience is American.Sex in Mexico — Love Hotels, Legal Loopholes, and the Grip of MachismoLegal public sex. Love hotels with St. Andrew's crosses. Retirement homes for elderly sex workers. A shelter funded by a former sex worker. Public…The Hidden Side of JapanJapan is one of the most fascinating contradictions on earth when it comes to sex.The Most Sexually Confusing Country I've Ever VisitedThailand is one of the most sexually confusing places I have ever been to.The Sex Tourism Capital Nobody Talks AboutI want to start with something honest: I almost didn't write this one.The Top 5 Most Sex Positive Countries in the WorldI've been to around 40 countries. I've spent real time in probably a third of them. And one of the things that travel does — if you're paying…The Uncomfortable Questions Nobody Wants to Ask About Western DatingYou walk by any tourist terrace in Thailand and you've probably seen it.We Went to Montreal's Last Adult CinemaIf you've lived in Montreal for any length of time, you know about Cinéma L'Amour.What Really Happens at a 7-Day Intimacy RetreatKalimera, friends. That means hello in Greek. And I just came back from one week at an intimacy retreat in Crete called The Cocoon. Holy moly.What's Actually Happening in the BedroomHere is something I did not expect to discover in Thailand:Why Solo Travel Is the Best Thing You Can Do for Your RelationshipWhen I tell people I'm going somewhere alone, the first thing they ask is whether everything is okay with me and Gab.Why the Dutch Are So Comfortable With SexI've spent a fair amount of time in Amsterdam over the last few years — mostly because we have good friends who live there and it's an expensive city…